If you know me, you know my love for all things Sex in the City. The fashion, the cosmos, the hair, the men, the friendships, the sex, the fantasy...all of it.
But what attracts me to it still, after all these years, is how I can watch it during different times in my life and relate to the different women: Carrie, Miranda, Samantha and Charlotte.
While my life has most recently resembled Miranda in the movie after discovering that Steve is a cheater (although he was sorry, something Mr. Little never seemed to be), I often relate to Charlotte's struggles and triumphs after her failed marriage with Trey.
There is a great scene in the episode entitled "Change of a Dress" where Charlotte is trying to get through those trials and tribulations of divorce by trying new things. She finds herself in the middle of a tap dance class having a meltdown during "Tea for Two"...it's funny, because it's realistic.
(I took African Dance post divorce: No joke...no judgment)
When Mr. Little first moved out I was on a mission to have a re-birth. A re-birth of my house, my body, my hair, my wardrobe, my career, my friends....a re-birth of the life I had come to know over the last decade that all of a sudden no longer existed. I painted furniture, smoked cigarettes, moved things around, went shopping, drank wine, made new friends, talked on the phone for hours, re-connected with people I had long forgotten about.
It was awesome and sad and a re-birth of me.
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